
Wednesday, April 28, 2010

没有你的日子 - Day 5
Today et and ivy came to pick me up at 7am to work.. Today the bus is giving us problem sia lol stop so far and ask us to go down coz the road infront is closed... Darling say if tml still like that she gonna complaint le lol...
Dear dear print out a very interesting article for me and it is abt relationship... Commitment jitters, date expectations and make love work... Read it and find alot of useful things inside... Thinking y last time I nv think of that and now end up like this...
It say most relationships end due to lack of communications and understanding. So the trust and concern must be there... A relationship will thrive when both of you make effort to communicate effectively. Ask open-ended questions so your date can share more any himself/herself. Also try to pay attention to what your date says. Both parties must be honest and upfront with each other about their feelings and expectations, rather than assume that the other person knows. This is especially since miscommunication often arises from different expectations and upbringings.
Long term couples who don't make time to be together are likely to drift apart - and eventually split up. One common excuse is work. The article also have tips to get busy couples on track:
1. Do things together - defy time and distance - even if it means spending quality time on the short drive to work.
2. Communication everyday - be it a call, SMS, mms, email or fax - more than once If possible. You can always keep it short and sweet.
3. Talk abt your future together. It is only fair to let each other know that your relationship is going somewhere and that your efforts ate not in vain.
4. Be positive that things will look up in future while you work out how to get through rough patches together.
5. Have trust in your partner and avoid jealousy. You should have a life too and your world should not only revolve around your partner.
6. Be reasonable about your expectations and compromise to make things work. Open communication rocks.
When I come to read this article den I know where my mistakes are... But everything is too late le no chance for us to go back to last time.. So from that day on I already told myself that it's time for me to change and be a better gal.. So since I promise I have to fulfill my promise...
Ok goodnite everybody gotta go slp le if not tml can't wake up le.. Nite blog again tml..
MiN missing him lots

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